How to be a Friend to a Friend Who's sick is just such a blog. It made me smile. This is the one that made me smile, for a different reason
"Don’t ask, “How are you feeling?” It’s an awkward question for someone who’s seriously ill."
Not only is it an awkward question, there are times when I reply truthfully and people get weirded out by hearing about how it feels to walk around with lumps of terminal cancer, poisonous medicines and pain.